There is an option for you that you may never have considered, so I am going to offer it to you:

How about when somebody reaches out to describe a tramautic experience such as Rebecca Stevens A. does here, if you don't have something supportive to say, you just make like Dionne Warwick and WALK ON BY?

I see no justification in posting a response such as yours. What was your goal in doing that? What are you trying to prove?

I know that this is going to sound like the advice from a first grade teacher, because that is what I am: a retired first grade teacher. As those of us involved with raising young people need to remind them time and time again, If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.

Let's be here to help each other rather than to attack each other.