Can't blame you - but you have to consider the fact that the overwhelming majority of people I know do not even know when my birthday is. That's the way I want it: no wishes, no parties, no cakes, no gifts, no stupid song.

I wrote about it here:

https://jaydavidson-sfo.medium.com/todays-anniversary-highlights-an-unusual-perspective-not-celebrating-my-birthday-6e2f98a62140